FuneralS

Losing a loved one is a deeply personal and challenging experience. At Canadian Martyrs, we strive to support you with compassion and understanding as you navigate the process of arranging a funeral. We are here to help you honour the memory of your loved one in a meaningful and respectful way.

 Please keep in mind that Canadian Martyrs primarily serves those who have a connection to our parish community. While we are open to considering graveside or funeral home services for others, full funeral Masses are generally reserved for our parishioners. We appreciate your understanding and are here to support you in any way we can during this difficult time.

Initial Steps 

The first step in planning a funeral is to contact a funeral home of your choice. The funeral home will guide you through the initial steps of preparation and then liaise with us to confirm the date and time for the service. If your preferred date is unavailable, we will provide alternative options.

Meeting with The pastor

Once a date is set, the next important step is to meet with the pastor. During this meeting, you will discuss the details of the funeral Mass, such as selecting readers and other aspects of the service. The pastor will provide you with materials to help you choose appropriate readings, which you’ll need to finalize and return to the office. Additionally, you will need to select the music for the Mass. Once the date is confirmed, we will coordinate with our music director to arrange for an organist and cantor.

FAQs

  • Funeral costs can vary depending on your specific needs. The funeral home will provide you with detailed information on their fees, and the following are some standard costs that might be due to the church. Usually, the funeral home will make arrangements for these payments, unless you request otherwise:

    • Church/Pastor: $300

    • Organist: $150-$200

    • Cantor: $50 -$75

  • Yes, a funeral Mass can be arranged for someone who has been cremated. The Church allows for cremation as long as it is done with respect and not for reasons contrary to the faith.

  • While we traditionally hold a full funeral Mass, it is possible to have a graveside or funeral home service instead. Please discuss this with the pastor, as exceptions can be considered, especially if your loved one was not a regular parishioner.

  • No. In a Catholic funeral Mass, the homily, given by the priest, takes precedence over personal eulogies. Eulogies are most appropriate either at the funeral home, or the cemetery.

  • Catholic funerals typically take place within a few days of death, allowing time for family to gather and for the necessary arrangements to be made. However, this can vary based on circumstances, so it’s best to consult with both the funeral home and the pastor to determine the most suitable timing.

  • The Church teaches that cremated remains should be treated with the same respect as a body. Therefore, ashes should be buried in a cemetery or placed in a mausoleum or columbarium. Scattering ashes or keeping them at home is not in keeping with Catholic practice.

  • The Church encourages a funeral Mass for all baptized Catholics, even if they were not practicing their faith at the time of death. However, this is something that should be discussed with the pastor to ensure that it is appropriate and respectful of the circumstances.

  • The vigil, also known as the wake, is a prayer service held the night before the funeral Mass. It is a time for family and friends to gather, offer prayers, and share memories. This is usually held at the funeral home.